Seems my "xD" triggered some offense, but you know I throw "xD" around like confetti. During this short match alone I used it 6 times [lo_ok @ Exhibit_3]. It’s my go-to reaction for almost everything. To interpret something toxic into those two letters and use 'em as evidence that I was "enjoying your unawareness" is quite a stretch... xD
It was my response to Wadah_Ali’s question,
—which I interpreted as a lack of knowledge about the unit itself, not as rules-related at all."What is that heavy ram?"
Given that Wadah joined my host just a few seconds before the game started, and four seconds after Batu triggered the last "No Rules" taunt [proven in Exhibit_0 & Exhibit_5]. Any confusion on Wadah’s part concerning rules would be understandable. However, this is irrelevant since you, Mona, were actively engaged in the chat during the last "No Rules" taunt, unlike Wadah, who was a last minute observer.
That you initially mistook Wadah for one of your opponents suggests that you weren’t entirely focused that evening all together. We all have those days, right? I was probably just as tired as you were & things added up.
The thought of using the Observer Chat to remind everyone that it was a "No Rules" game didn’t even cross my mind, because I was certain everyone already knew. It shows that I didn’t see the need to reiterate something that seemed obvious.
[Exhibit_1] Pro_of 1:
If you watch my playback with my camera perspective turned on, you’ll see that I wasn’t focused solely on what you were doing in order to allegeldy "enjoy your unawareness". I wasn’t even paying attention to your civilization or strategy at all—I was jumping around the map, & only noticed Batu’s ram when shortly before Wadah & you. Besides, it’s against the rules for an observer to interfere in the game by warning players about what’s happening on the battlefield.
When the ram reached your Outpost construction, I was actually impressed by how quickly you deleted it to save the resources. I thought you would then use your civilians to destroy the ram & still win easily. I never imagined that you would "do the Kiffke" & quikly quit without even trying.
Now, I recognise that it happened due to a misunderstanding & your frustration about it. I’m very sorry for my part in causing that—not only for you and everyone involved, but also for myself, as I would have loved to see the epic match it could have been if you were aware of the no-rules.
The "N|o_R|ules" Taunt Protocol
So, there’s a protocol requiring the host to send the "No Rules" taunt right after the game starts? Honestly, I had no idea.
Typing "No Rules" in the chat before the game starts has always been efficient, and when experienced players click ready, it’s assumed they’re on board.
I always double-check with new players, though, to ensure they really grasp what 'No Rules' means—though it's usually the opposite with 'yes_rules' games, since newbies often assume no rules by default... xD
But making this the standard isn't a bad idea. Could you automate that? Introducing a specific "No Rules" setting for hosts in the option for starting troops could work, with a unique starting unit, like a gardener or a slave, to indicate it's a no-rules game. Would be great if you added an automated taunt at the beginning—though if that’s possible, then the no-rule-unit is not needed anymore... xD
From what you’re describing, it sounds like the taunt wasn’t triggered within a minute before the game started. I have to disagree—I clearly saw "no rules" in the chat, and the taunt was triggered. Maybe you PC was muted? Or maybe I was experiencing that unofficial patch syndrome where you hear the taunt just by reading it… xD
Or maybe the current "No Rules" taunt is too gentle? It’s time to give it a more noticeable, shrill AI voice scream!?
I also wasn’t aware that only games with "No Rules" in the title could be played without rules. It makes sense in theory, especially for player Coo1, who mainly hosts "no rules" games, but it seems completely impractical for most players, who usually spontaniously ask to switch to no-rules.
About That Epoch Advantage
Earlier that day, we tested how many epochs Icetimeable needed to be competitive and a 4-epoch advantage seemed fair!
Exhibit_2: Playback - Gno_oty vs. Icetimeable Pro_of 2:
I’ve played this set myself. So the idea I’d impose this as a disadvantage specifically for you just doesn’t hold up.
Why would I want to deliberately make YOU lose anyways?
At first, I also placed Batu one epoch higher to offset the less skilled teammate disadvantage. You specifically requested Batu’s epoch to be lowered from 7 to 6, and I complied, even though I thought that small advantage was reasonable. Your objection shows you were aware of the settings, so bringing it up as an issue now surprises me.
I understand that "No Rules" games can enhance the value of the epoch-advantage & might require a different approach, but in this case, we’re talking about Icetimeable, who I’ve never seen use spies—especially not in the many "No Rules" games from that day with same epoch differences.
Pro_of 3:
Lo_oking at [Exhibit_1: Playback – Mona&Indie VS. Batu&Ice (no rules)] how the match went on after your exit, you'll see that Icetimeable didn't even build a university, while Indie to_ok revanch for you & basically crushed Batu. xD
Exhibit_3: Full chat log, after Mona left.
Pro_of 4:
After you left, everyone was confused about how the "No Rules" slipped past
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Added after 23 minutes 17 seconds:
What Really Happened – Debunking Monas Key Claims
1. You claim to have minimized the game & missed the "No Rules" messages due to chat spam.
2. You insist the "No Rules" setting wasn’t mentioned "by anyone" while you were present.
Here's what happened within 1 minute before the game start:
Exhibit_4 – Screenshot:
Pro_of 5:
At 19:23:23, Mona types, "don't seem to help you," - game wasn’t minimized.
Exhibit_5 – Screenshot:
Pro_of 6:
At 19:23:35, Batu reminded everyone with the "no rules" taunt.
Pro_of 7:
At 19:23:39, Wadah joined, AFTER Batu's last "no rules" reminder.
Pro_of 8:
At 19:23:50, Mona clicked ready - game wasn’t minimized.
Exhibit_6 – Screenshot:
Proof 9:
At 19:23:57, Mona objected—again, showing the game wasn’t minimized.
Exhibit_1 & Exhibit_3 – Playback & Chatlog:
Pro_of 9:
The game started at 19:24, proving you were fully engaged before the game start.
Sorry, but your claim that you missed the "no rules" taunt & setting because the game was minimized or "No Rules" setting wasn’t mentioned "by anyone" while you were present. doesn’t hold water.
My Confession, But...
It was never my intention to mislead you,
but I didn't personally confirm with you about the "no rules" agreement & mistakenly assumed your clicking "ready" after the "no rules" taunt meant you were on bord & fully aware.
MEA CULPA!
I agree that the host should ensure everyone understands the settings, but there’s also some responsibility on the players’ side if afk or minimizing the game & reading "no_rules" you should have clearified! Repeatedly asking everyone as a host can get stressful, especially when hosting for hours as a favor.
After hosting many no-rules games that day, myself and the other players may have gotten a bit too relaxed with communicating the no-rules & kinda shifted into an "auto no-rules mode" by that point, while it was only your second "No Rules" game.
For any guilt that falls on me, BUT Mona, you were actively engaged in the chat during the "no rules" taunt. You clicked "READY," and it seemed clear that everyone understood the settings. I definitely would have asked you personally if I thought there was a chance it might have slipped past you!
I’m wondering if you might have missed the "No Rules" notification for that privious game as well?—the one you quickly quit because you didn’t have the patience to wait out what was likely a shortterm lag from player Ruzbeh.
A Side Note to Your Quote
Quoting Mona:
No, let’s clear this up:"He creates such "rules" in his hosted games randomly."
Before you joined that first match, Mona, I was actually hosting a "No Rules" rematch with the same teams and settings as before. But when Batu ghosted, you jumped into the slut & disrupted the planned rematch by not switching to observer.
I didn’t ask you to go obs because I was genuinely glad to see you play for a change, but now I regret not sticking to the original plan. Had you obsed that rematch, you would’ve easily noticed it was part of a "No Rules" game marathon & we surely could have avoided this mess.
Conclusion & Final Thoughts
I hope this clears up the situation from my perspective.
I’ve always strived to host fair & fun games, & it’s regrettable that a misunderstanding led to such serious accusation.
Moving forward, I’ll just avoid to keep on hosting for others when I’m getting tired & potentially "on host tilt" to prevent any further incidents as such.
Thanks to both of you, who to_ok the time to read this full doctoral thesis on my side of the story... xD
Cheers,
o_O